Wednesday, March 05, 2014

More Tree Insurance

Note to anyone in Toronto threatened by your neighbor's private (not city owned) tree: take care of it yourself. 

Trees are a tricky thing.  They are really tricky in this city.  Super tricky in our old, old neighborhood where the maples are 100 years old and reach 90+ feet high. 

And then you have an ice storm.


This is three streets away from us.  They are our school friends.  And that tree that uprooted and tipped over was enormous.  Thank goodness nobody was hurt, and she said they needed a new car anyway.

We have a maple tree that hangs over our house.  It belongs to our neighbor and is set back just far enough from the street that it is a "private" tree, not a "city" tree...meaning the city doesn't take responsibility for (read: prune) it. 

Pruned, April 2010
Pruned, May 2012

So we do.  We've pruned this tree out of our own pocket for 10 years.  The last prune was May 2012.  I consider it really expensive insurance. 

Then the December 2013 ice storm happens and we lose our our electrical mast for the 2nd time in 18 months.  Same tree dropping branches. 

Finally, a discussion with the neighbor that owns it.  Safety is number one concern.  There is ice storm damage that needs to be taken care of.  Tree is in decline, getting worse.  We say, let's consider removal and suggest helping with cost.  Lots of head nodding, but not much interest is shown.  Weeks go by and then...there's a really windy morning...

Drooping = Split Branch
Diamond = Large Split

...so I look up to see a really large branch swaying and twisting and splintering in the wind.  Above our car.  Just outside the front door.

Here's where I tell you I go a little crazy.  Maybe it's mama bear protecting her kids?  Maybe it's mama bear imagining no car and shuttling three littles in subzero weather?  Maybe it's mama bear picturing herself scaling the tree with a saw in hand and throwing the broken branch on the neighbor's yard? 

Take your choice. 

(The arborist may or may not have almost witnessed some scaling by this mama of three littles who use the front door after he said someone would be nuts to park or walk under the tree like that....ARGH!!!)  

5 very long days after that windy morning, the branch -and other dead, broken, damaged- came down. 

Before
After
Before
After

It's a point of contention for me.  I love our neighborhood for so many reasons, and the big, beautiful, mature trees is one of them.  But the less of this tree I see hanging over our house, the better I feel. 

I just don't feel good about the cost.  I've done some digging since the last prune in May 2012, trying to figure out where the responsibility for taking care of this tree lies.  The owner?  The neighbor?  It appears that if there is a hazard to the neighbor present, it is the owner's responsibility to mitigate that hazard.  The problem is the process of getting the owner to act.  The city moves quickly for nobody.

The owner doesn't live there.  They rent out the house.  Our urgent communication wasn't replied to for days and no offer to act was given.  So in this situation, we acted.  We couldn't wait.  

Instead, we're waiting to hear from them about our suggestion to share the cost...while we continue to monitor this poor tree and keep track of its decline (read: continued hazard) which may lead to removal. 

In the meantime, I will cringe just a little bit less with the next big gust of wind ;)

Friday, February 28, 2014

Food, Family and Fun

I've found something so inspiring, I feel like I'm living a lie.  It's a cookbook.  But I can't cook.  So it's perfect.


I'm not into celebrity perfumes, shoes or clothing lines.  So why would I be into this celebrity cookbook?  Just read that cover.

I am toooootally a can't cook.  I don't enjoy cooking.  I like to eat good food.  But there's not much else out there that stresses me out like trying to think of a recipe, prep all the food and then cook everything to deliciousness. 

I would rather put together an IKEA Expedit.  The big one.  By myself. 

So imagine my amazement, standing there in the big chain bookstore, when I decided I should buy this cookbook.  For me.  Steve couldn't believe it either. 

Then I tried it out.

Potatoes, Parsnips, Carrots
Deliciousness

Actually, the real scene was more like this...I had to make them stop to snap a pic.



Super delicious!  And sooooo easy!!!  I even made her burgers to go with the fries.

They are EATING it!
Him TOO!!!

Parsnips were gone first.  Then the potatoes, followed closely by the carrots.  I wouldn't have believe it if I didn't see it myself.

Since the purchase, I've successfully made 5 recipes (2 of them multiple times) on my own.  Which is key, because I'm married to someone who loves to cook.  And yes, that makes me even more of a can't cook. 

But I can still make a cake and brownies!

Birthday Boys

The annual February birthday celebration happened last weekend.  Both boys couldn't have been happier.  Or scored bigger on balloons and presents.


Neither could stay still with their balloon-o-grams from Uncle Joe, Aunty Peggy and cousins Charlie and Ben. 

Every year those bunches bring smiles to their faces that last all day.  And those balloons can last for months. Which is awesome, because the biggest one in the bunch plays music.  (Don't tell him, but Steve said he's going to hide one in Uncle Joe's drywall this summer)


Dreams Come True

The biggest got a diamond hat he's been dying for and wheeled shoes he's been dreaming of.

I Only Need This One


The littlest got a package of 3 trucks and didn't care about any more presents. 

Ahhh...the life of a three year old.

Actually...the life of an 8, 6 and 3 year old!


They were spoiled with Mimi (grandma) time all weekend long.  And loved it.

Bubba was there, too...

More Cooking?

...and he found his love of Kale Chips. 

GONE

I decided to make something healthy after the weekend of treats, snacks and too much vino.  But this can't cook couldn't keep up with the demand for her kale chips!  This is the only picture I have of the "wafers of life".  That was a sober comment made by my father. 

And lastly, a little bit of fun around here.

No More Diapers!?!?

We've started going poo on the toilet.  I'm a big proponent of toilet training late with boys.  It wasn't worth the fight with my eldest, so we waited until he was closing in on 4.  He did it in a weekend.  Same with the middle.  So this attempt is premature with the littlest...but is there anything better in life than flushing clean toilet paper?

Bedhead

Waking up from naptime, I saw this.  Guess who's getting a haircut this weekend?

Brothers

And this: the ongoing saga of 3 boys sleeping in the same room, and me taking pictures of them sleeping.

Priceless.



Friday, February 21, 2014

3

It's official.  As of today, I no longer have any babies.  Because the guy that was a baby yesterday?   He's 3 today.

Born
Today
 
Actually, he hasn't been a baby for a while, I just don't know when it happened.  In this family, you stop being the baby when another baby comes.  But there are no more babies coming.  We're done.  So I guess that means he'll always be the baby.

Until his baby cousin comes over and then I just feel old.

So here's a look back on three years of baby life. 

Born
6 months
1 year
18 months
2yrs
2 1/2 years
3 yrs

So here's to my stroller-hatin', big boy bed sleepin', big boy cup drinkin', "I-do-it-myself", super serious and then super silly, not-a-baby-anymore boy.

Can't wait for another year of fun with you.

Brothers
Daddy
Mommy

Mommy loves you.  And though you may hate to hear it...

You'll always be my little baby G!

Sunday, February 09, 2014

Featured on Houzz.com

If you've found me through Houzz.com, welcome!  If you want to check out our feature, click here.

Andrew Snow Photography

Being featured on Houzz.com is such an honor.  When we worked with Kirsten Marshall of Palmerston Design to put together our home, we pored through this website for inspirational ideas.  To think that someone might look at pictures of our house for their own inspiration is thrilling! 

Not only am I proud to see my home there, I'm proud to see Kirsten's vision and Nuno's execution (our contractor from Caliber Group) highlighted. 

Stay tuned for more background on the renovation, especially the kitchen.  It's the reason why we got a designer involved...and possibly our favorite room in the house! 

Or is it!? 

For previous house tours, click here & here for the living room, click here for the dining room, click here for the powder room and here for the pantry.

Friday, February 07, 2014

8

Eight years ago, I took this picture.

Newborn

He was 24 hours old.  I had no idea what I was doing, not yet in love like everyone said I'd be, and terrified to take him home. 

It seems like yesterday.


But it's not.  This was...


It's the total cliche.  The days are long and the years are short.  You blink and they're big.  Stop growing. 

But I can't keep the world from turning.


So we just enjoy the moments as they fly by.



And make sure he chooses his birthday dinner for as long as he's ours.


Daddy's sliders with fries and soda.  He said they're the best. 

And so was that wine in the background...mom gets to celebrate, too :)

Tuesday, February 04, 2014

Organizing By Color

On the heels of decluttering, I did a little organizing.  And I did it with something this very white house has very little of...color. 

Our Beloved Closet

I adore our closet if only because our previous one was horrifically small, dark and impossible on every level.  The IKEA Pax Tonnes changed my life. 

A Place For Everything

Then I copied the drawer/shelf system they had in-store.

Hmmm


And wound up with this.  Jewelry that doesn't have a place in the box because it's worn too much, still in baggies from visits to my family back home, big and small, different colors...what!?

Then I went to Target.


Metal serving tray (on sale), appetizer plates (clearance) and small dip bowl.  I didn't know I needed them until I got them home.

Before
After

Hello.  Now I can see what to put on in the morning before I've even had coffee. 

Before
After

And the pops of color are necessary in February.


The gold/yellow and silver/gray color coordination was completely accidental.  I only noticed that after taking these pictures.  Unconscious OCD-ish?  Um, yes.


I may love this bowl even more than joe fresh jewelry.  And you can see that's saying a lot...!